A letter to you

Dear Champion, 

I am your new pen pal. I was dying to tell you that you are amazing. I know you feel anxious, scared, over-think and get nervous. Every time you step on the stage or go for an interview a droplet of stress hit the ground or whenever you interact with people you doubt yourself before the conversation. Today, I want you to vanish those clouds of negativity from your head.

But, do you know that you are harming your mental health in the process? You overthink a lot of things. I want to tell you it's not important to analyze every freaking thing. It's not mandatory to think negatively before stepping forward that's not how to live a life. 

One of my close friends says, when you overthink your future, you support your enemies. You satisfy them by ruining your present. 

I understand that you try your best to be perfect. But in your present time, I want you to walk with pride with your imperfections and polish yourself while fully enjoying the journey. You need to know this every one of us has flaws. No one is blessed with perfections. People work on that, what you see in people and desire, is the reflection of their hard work.

I believe one day, you will meet some amazing bunch of people who will make you believe in yourself, who would inspire you with their imperfections. Yes, they  would have flaws yet they would be so much confident. They surely will encourage you that you are amazing, brave, and the upcoming leader.

But before someone else take the credit, I want you to do this favor and transform yourself. 

I am sure they will help you in the journey to see the spark in you which you unfortunately, failed to see. You will earn back your confidence. The first thing you should stop doing right now is to stop running for validations, stop worrying, stop overthinking. 

Know the 5 mantras of living a better life:

1. Count 1 2 3 and act
2. Act confident
3. Believe in yourself
4. Know affirmations
5. Manifest what you desire
   Once you learn this, you will get what you want. 

Anyways, I don't say validations are bad. But, if it takes away your vibe then, something is wrong. 

Believe in your skills, believe in yourself, walk with confidence. 

It's okay if you crave for validations. But, for the long term. It's a NO-NO.

It's okay if you cry a night before. It's okay that's fine. But, the next morning you have to wake up with a smile.

It's perfectly okay if you removed your loved ones from your life, just to save yourself.

Darling! believe me, when I say, it's okay.

Remember you are the best person with imperfections and flaws.

I believe in you.

I want you to shine.

I want you to smile.

I want you to dance with your flaws.

You are amazing just the way you are.

I never want to see you shatter.

I want you to walk with whatever you have but with confidence. 

I Love you, just the way you are.

See you super soon champion. 

Sending you warm hugs 

-Navodita