Invisible pen

Love is a peaceful feeling, it makes everything more beautiful and falling in love is not an unsatisfactory thing but depressing yourself because of an imperfect relationship is a major crime, a crime in the globe of love which destroys all your senses completely and situations get worst when one single word enters and that is ''Breakup'' which not only smashes a heart but shatters some dreams at the same time.
So, this afternoon, I was busy with my work and I received a note from a woman, she demanded a blog post on '' Breakup Phase '' So, it was clear from her text messages that she was seeking help and wanted a solution to come out from that phase and it was not like she didn't try herself, she did but could not help herself, for all that don't worry here I am for each one of you who are somewhere dealing with this issue.

ALARMING MATTER:-
Past is something from which we can't come out straightforwardly and it becomes tougher when it comes to break up. The breakup can be between best friends or girlfriend-boyfriend.

If you are the one who couldn't come out of this phase even after months or years till now then it's the matter of concern on which we need to talk about because no one discusses separation phase which is essential to talk about. I understand how it feels and how lost you feel in this period but I know how to get out of this mess.
As this phase of life can destroy you not only mentally but somewhere physically [losing/gaining weight, taking way too much stress, dull face or losing a smile] 

NOTE: Your solution lies in your hands and it is by controlling your thoughts. 

In Addition, Don't do immature acts by hitting your partner because that person might have hurt you but it does not give you any right to harm someone. Act mature and try to grow in this phase.

JOT IT DOWN: You only achieve best on your worst days and automatically you do finer in your survival because in that period you are full of aggression and you want to make your ex to regret about what that person has lost. So, somewhere that person plays an important role in your success.

Keep it in the center of your mind:-

1. So,if you are the one who is dealing with this case then remember that better-half never leaves, your true life partner will never ever leave you no matter what but if your partner left you in tears and you are waiting for him to come back and wipe off your tears then I must say you are the crackpot, if you are waiting for the rain in the Atacama Desert or dreaming of hot wind at Antarctica. Your partner is not going to re-visit you and if in case he/she comes back, I guarantee you that person will surely leave you without even a second thought. You two were not meant to be that's why you are apart on your worst days. 
2. No shirty relationship deserves your time remember that why you two left each other and now after months/years there is no point wasting more time on that nugatory ex. There is a reason why that person is your ex and when you think of that person, recall that reason.
3. Darling, you are not investing your time in a good stuff. So, do better things with your life, devote yourself your time, your growth is more important than your crappy relationship. 
4. So the fourth most thing is, keep yourself busy to avoid that person's thoughts.

IF YOU PRACTICE THIS:

• If you keep on thinking about that person within one year you will notice that how many times that person came in your notions and you will heed that it harmed you mentally and your personal/professional life which is the reason you are not growing in your life and you are unable to move on from that relationship and just because of that you have still stuck over there and that idiotic person had moved on and is doing  good in his/her life and hanging out with people and god knows how many lives he has been spoiling for years. But, if you don't think about that person for the entire year you will observe that you have grown so much in your personal life as well as in your professional life. 
• I'll suggest you to track your thoughts whenever you think that your ex is coming in your head constantly in your subconscious mind stop it right over there don't entertain that person even in your thoughts. That person was a lesson, it was a tiny character in your life who played a role for a time being but taught you a lot, gave you irreplaceable incidents and just because of that person now you are tracking your thoughts, you are keeping a keen eye on every event/every person who is stepping in your life and you are conscious of everyone and now, you don't give your time to anyone simply. You invest your time on better people(this is the sign of good result)
• Remember, that his/her role has ended long back and it is your thoughts which are bringing those moments back. I understand you have enjoyed your ex's presence, you have shared everything with that particular person, you gave your whole soul and love to the unworthy person. I understand you miss those moments, I understand you never thought of this phase but guess what you enjoyed that moment, you laughed your heart out but today, you are depressed and lost because of those memories but it doesn't mean that person would take away your happy soul. It was your past you enjoyed your relationship somewhere isn't it true? But the depressing part of your present day is you are ruining your present. You deserve all the good things but for that, you need to be mentally strong, physically you are strong I know you are carrying that smile on your face and hiding those red swelled eyes every morning by giving some lame excuses but how long would you cry for someone who already left your door (heart). 

LITTLE POEM:

Allow those eyes to bleed happiness and not grief 

Time to glue the real smile on your pretty face

Turn your cheeks red instead of your eyes 

Permit yourself to bleed those blank pages with your suffering stories rather than your wrist in frustration
Time to write down your own destiny with the power of your thoughts

Empower yourself to change your own world

Let the rainbow enter from your window
Stand strong at the opening, wave at the storms and scream ''Test Me with new challenges each day. I won't give up''

You know you deserve the best

Give your small world light and just open your arms for all the experiences in life whether good or bad don't give a damn 

I know that you know you deserve the best till your last breath.

Now, imagine this that you have already got all this, you have grown up with the difficulties, you know how to smile and now, welcome everything in your life. 

LITTLE GUIDANCE FOR BUSY SCHEDULE : 

1. Read a lot of books: explore different genres, new writers.
2. Visit coffee shops
3. Explore your area or new places: You will get to know a lot about that place.
4. Start journaling: Take off your aggression or frustration in a positive way. Start writing letters and address that person in those figures for a short period if in case, you are unable to move on and remember, that person will not receive those letters ever keep them or burn them your choice.
5. Invest your time in your family
6. Learn how to cook 
7. Develop new skills 
8. Be productive 
9. Involve yourself in various activities
10. Inspire people by your thoughts and by your work
11. Help the needy one it will make you happy trust me
12. Produce Creative ideas
13. Overcome your fear and say yes to struggles
14. Admire nature and it will give you positivity 

If you keep doing this stuff it won't take anything from you but, every night it will tranquillity you and I assure you this.

I know, it will be hard for some time, your monster thoughts won't cooperate at first but they will be quite one day, only when you start neglecting these kinds of negativity or emotions, add them in your routine and you will be on hills when you see your progress at the end of the year.

GUIDANCE TO MOVE ON:

1. Talking regarding this issue can make you feel light but personally, I won't recommend it. I suggest you not to talk about your breakup issue to anyone, talking about your split-up to people make no sense because you will discuss about your ex,  you will start remembering those happy moments and vows you two took together so, it won't help in any way just accept it that you two are done with each other, now it's over between you two and there's no point thinking or crying over it. Okay, you can cry, face it and get over it but don't continue it more than a week,take one week and end it. 
2. Your ex neither deserves hate nor love because if you carry any of these emotions you won't be able to move on with your life. Just respect each other's opinion and move on. Don't end any relationship on a bad note because it will be hard for you to move on, don't do anything which you regret later. Just track your thoughts and you are ready to go.
3. Never blame yourself in separation juncture and don't live with regrets. 
4. Water the seed of love, nurture it don't be too hard on yourself. Some more characters will come and go but, it doesn't mean you will cry for each one of them, some characters will die and some of them will leave your home that's the part of growth and new experiences. 
5. Don't consider yourself as a victim or a culprit it wasn't your destiny that's it and now move on and keep walking and look back only when you want to learn something from that fault else there is no need to carry guilt or any emotion in your heart or mind. 
6. If you genuinely want to move on then change your playlist because most of the time in this stage you listen to breakup songs which will never help you to forget your past.

Your paths were different that's it move forward and chase your dreams. Long way to go, darling, don't get disappointed it's just a small chapter which has ended, remember that you carry an invisible pen so, it's time to write down your beautiful love story and a happy ending and don't forget, you carry a book which has some unread chapters and unexperienced life lessons and now, it's the time to turn the next page and keep that tale confidential.

Remember that, a gem remains a gem even if it is thrown, so don't lose your originality.

Congratulations on your new start, I believe you will get over from it, keep walking on the road and adore the things which come on your way and let the growth of your emotions and experiences scream. Now, it's your time to land on the next level of your life. 

Disclaimer: I'm, not an expert, I might be wrong somewhere but this is my opinion which I think is good for you and it might help you somewhere. 

On last note, You can send me your request on any content you want me to talk about I will write a blog post on that. 

Goodnight for now.  I will come up with more write-ups.
Million thoughts under the stars, signing off for now. Till then chase your dreams.