Hashtag Goals

Hello, Hashtaggers 

We the social media junkies trust the things we see. We trust those whoever wear happy faces. We basically name it ''Goals'' such as Couple Goals, Relationship Goals, Friendship Goals, Family Goals, and whatnot but do we understand that they are also human beings which means they have gone through alot in their lives, they are not the angels who got the things effortlessly, they struggled , they sacrificed, they cried, they know the value of things they have, they were ready for the sacrifices for the things they dreamt of which means they were mentally strong and they didn't quit, they know the real meaning of self-immolation and struggle and after years of  peaks and valleys they are standing and building their empire but no one sees the hard work they have put in whether we talk about relationship or raising a child or achieving something in job or in life behind everything there is blood, sweat, and tear and it is very saddening that it gets to drain and without even thinking twice we just name it     ''Hey, they are goals''

       But the point is,

1. Are you prepared for it?
2. Are you ready for the sacrifices? 
3. Are you strong enough of this much hard work they have planted and the pain they underwent with?  

I don't understand why we ignore the real struggle behind the work. Those who you call goals are still endeavouring and if I talk about us so, the fact is none of us is ready for even half of their achievements. 

• Before continuing this Note it, I'm not disgracing anyone. 

Are you the one, who goes on Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp every second of every minute even when you don't get any notification?

Well, let me tell you that social media is a trap and we all are stuck in it. It was made for our entertainment and not for decaying our time. These kinds of applications are sucking not only your cellphone's battery but also your time and paralyzing your mind somewhere.

• Do you think whoever you see on social sites, is happier and living a peaceful life?

Well, you have mistaken darling. Social media is a web or I say it is a kind of magnet which attracts you with some catchy headlines/pictures and it forces you to trust the things you see but in reality, everyone's life is messed up like yours, everyone is running in the rat race, everyone is coping up with something.
If, you think those happy faces have the beautiful smiles. Hold on,  let me give your racing mind a red signal, their smiles are hiding the painful scars even the happy couples have a bad past and a bitter truth which they rarely reveal to anyone. They pretend to make their life look alright. So, the point behind all this is not pulling the negative sides of social media but to tell you that everyone is dealing with something horrible in their lives, everyone is facing something lamentable in their lives but they all are focusing on the positive sides. So, don't get influenced by what you see but understand that there are a lot of people out there, who are struggling in their lives but wear a brave face every time they step out from their place.
We need to understand that there is a time when nothing goes well in everyone's life, there is a time when life hits everyone really hard but we social media addicts pretend to be happy but instead of ignoring the facts and situations we need to manage with them. I'm just saying that don't get convinced by the things you see on social sites whether we talk about news or your kind of goals or anything.

• Remember that nothing is permanent, every emotion will go and every new beginning will root new feelings and it will bring new experiences as well as some undying life lessons which you will be thankful for.

Don't get shocked when someone who once was your goal discloses their relationship status and tells you that he/she has ended their relationship just accept that even they are human beings and so it is quite obvious that they can face such situations. 

Understand that, it's okay to have emotions.
Understand that, it's all right because they are also a human being.
Understand that, it's normal because we human beings are full of divergent feelings.
Understand that, we have sentiments and every relationship is going through something whether you talk about the father-daughter relationship, boyfriend-girlfriend, mother-son, husband-wife, best friend, boss-employee, but it's okay and it's perfectly fine because it's the part of life and it's really good to experience every problem and solve them instead of running from them. 
Understand the difference between reality and social media's life.  Reality talks about good and bad things and makes you understand the true meaning of life and you can't ignore any hitch by blocking them or deleting them basically there is no escape button in your life so you are left with only one option and that is ''FACE IT NOW OR LATER''.

•  Note: After every dark night there's a brighter day.

TIME TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE:-

In the era of social media when everyone is busy in their cell phones with their head bow and burning their time, let me interrupt right there, this is the phase of your life when you have to choose between if you want to continue doing this every day or you want to change this habit. I repeat don't trust the things you see, you must use internet as a great opportunity which is available in your hands 24*7, use it in a productive way, and now it's your call how or according to your interest, apply your choices and invest your time in a better way for your betterment and you will see how you have changed your own life by using internet. Transform your soulless life and add a little bit salt in it, add some colors, experience new things,double the good things, make some mistakes learn from them, count your every second of every hour, set some real goals, achieve them and then, see how you have modified your existence in just a few months. 

• REMINDER: INTERNET HAS A POWER, USE IT WISELY AS IT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER JUST TRUST YOUR ABILITIES AND BE THE BOSS OF YOUR LIFE.

I'm signing off for now, will come up with some new write-ups really soon till then be productive and learn something new each day.

 -Much Love, MILLION THOUGHTS UNDER THE STARS.